Is it damaging to teach our young girls that empowerment and freedom means to freely exploit oneself sexually? Yes. The third paragraph below truly struck me because it is so true about how many, maybe even most girls think about themselves. I will tell my daughters (who knows if they will listen) that they should only consider dating Christian men who call them beautiful or pretty before they call them hot. To be hot is not what any young girl should desire to be. But no doubt, this is what they are taught through a million ways. Melinda Tankard Reist is doing well in exposing how advertising leads our young girls into thinking this way. While I am not a big boycott person, I do appreciate the attention she is drawing to this cause.
Ultimately though, we must add to our fight against sexually explicit advertising, music, etc. the true teaching about what girls are to do.
1 Timothy 2:8-10 I desire…that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness- with good works.
Titus 2:3-5 Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.
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“I will tell my daughters (who knows if they will listen) that they should only consider dating Christian men who call them beautiful or pretty before they call them hot.” I am taken aback by the truth in those words.
Here is a book recommendation for you and any fathers with daughter(s): Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters. The chapter on religion is not very good (the author is a Roman Catholic pediatrician), but the vast majority of the book is excellent and very eye-opening.